Like there isnt enough going on in my life. Like im not already dealing wit a bunch of bullshit from the people around me. Like im not aready stressed to the brim with work school and everything else going on, lack of sleep and being sick for a month now but now i have to deal with crap from my own mother! The one person i never thought would do something like this to me, the one person i talk to several times a day and see nearly everyday as well.
For years now my mom at different times has let it be know that she thought my father in law was attractive. I took it as a joke and went on with my life. Recently after getting divorced from my mother in law, moving a woman in with him for over two years, kicked her out moved another one in kicked her out and fooled around with at least4 oter woman that i know of and who know how many more my father in law let it be known to my sister that he also found my mother attractive and had thought about asking her out. Yet another statement that we all took as a joke and went on with our lives. That is until somene told me that they had called my mm several times and ech time she was quick to get off the phone because my ather in law was over there at her house. Something i found odd! so i decided to bring it up to my mom, and of course she denied it all but was wondering who had told me, and asked me if someone had seen them out eating together, because they had went out to eat together a few times, so she told on herself right there cause i didnt een know anything about that, she said there was nothing going on between them. i was sooo mad and I let her know in a very serious way how wrong it was and how it better not be happening, she didnt have a choice in the matter. she agreed. then my husband also talked to his father, he also denied it all and said nothing was going on. made up some kind of story as to why he was over at her house and how they just happened to runinto each other at the restuarant when they had both went there aone so they decided to eat together...bullshit!!!
My husband and i were trying really hard not to over react about it all especially since they both denied anything going on. but BAM did we get slapped in the face last night when someone informed me that on the very day that we had, had our little discussions with each of them, my father in law had been seen at my moms house all evening. I WAS FURIOUS! and snapped on my mother when i saw her shortly after, i told her it was sick, and wrong and what the fuck was she thinking and she had no explanation for her actions other than saying she didnt understand why i was having such a problem with it. she actually laughed it off said whatever and left. i havent spoke to her since! but i did take the time to look at her phone records from which she has a line on our contract and i found there that they have been making phone calls back and forth, several of them for a few weeks now...this made me even madder because a few of those times she had been with me and had lied to me about who had called in.
The main fact is, if they were only hanging out as friends like they both have said why in the fuck are they sneaking around, and lying about shit. if there is nothing going on then there should be nothing to hide or lie about in my opinion. and when it comes to my father in law, he doesnt just have woman friends, he aims to get them in the bed and thats about it, i know, i have been seeing him do this for years now. He is also one of those kind of guys that will be with one woman, say he loves her, live with her and everything and talk about her like a dog to every single person he comes in contact with, then end up kicking her to curb but not before he has flirted with everyone woman that shot him a glance while he was still with the other woman...he thinks he is hot and all that when he is nothing but nasty but always talks about the next woman he is going to be with and i be damn if the next one is my mother!!! ok now when it comes to my mother, she has the lowest selfesteem i have ever seen a person before in my life. she is naive and the perfect kind of woman for my father n law cause he likes the ones he can control and run over all the time and that will sit there and take...she know he is a dick head, and treated my mother in law like shit, his fiance tina like shit and every other woman. along with stalking them and doing fucked up things towards them after breaking up, my mother has seen all this. and the main thing i think of is how she has seen him treat me like shit for the whole 12 years that i have been around him. he has never liked me, always put me down and shit so that right there should turn her against him if nothing else does. but nope she doesnt think there is nothing wrong with it, she doesnt understand why im upset, and says that she is just getting to know him when in all reality she already knows him. I dont know what the hell is going on in her mind right now but im not gonna stand for it, so since i know she is a grown ass woman and i cant make it stop, i let her know real quick that if she continued to dothis shit then she or him are welcomed at my house period!!!
Some people have tried to make light of this situation by making jokes like, if they got together and got married not only would my husband and i be step brother and sister, but i would be aunt mama to my kids and he would be uncle daddy, my kids would be siblings and cousins and even though i am completly aware of the fact that this is kentucky that we live in, that shit is not going down and in all truth this shit isnt funny at all!!!
So after venting it out here in thi blog i am still furious about it, neither one of them can spit any kind of excuse or explination to me that i will except. Im have said my part and even though i cant really stop it they both know exactly how my husband and i feel about the situation so now we are just sitting back and waiting to see if relationships are going to be ruined over this crap. hell im used to relationships being ruined these days. so bring it on. im prepared!!!
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