four christmas'

10 days til christmas and the arguing has begun...both jason and i have divorced parents therefore we always have 4 different places to go for thanksgiving and christmas...making it a very stressful and rushed time...all my life my mom has had her christmas at the same time on christmas day (dinnertime), jasons mom has had her christmas at the same time christmas day (lunchtime), jasons dad is very flexible willing to do his whenever is best for us cause we are the only ones he gets together with...but when it comes to getting together with my dad there is always a conflict and argument with christmas plans jumping back and forth, its exhausting...there is always planning around one family and not at all around the others resulting this year in  none of me and my sisters being able to be there...its a shame. i understand that there are always several families to work around but there has always been a way in the past...having kids of my own, its very exhausting having to run here and run there all day long, not really having time to enjoy ourselves...but i guess thats what you get for having four christmas'....